Practical Transurfing - 78 day challenge, Day 40

Going alongside the Current 

Declaration: 
Trust the current of variance. Get into equilibrium with the surrounding world. Do everything in the easiest possible way. When in a situation, do not act as a participant, but become an observant. See the difficult situation from a neutral point of view and determine where you place excess potential. Remember: nothing is as important as you think it is!!! If something does not follow your plan, let go of your plan and trust. You are given an advice you do not like - do not reject immediately but think. Someone does or says something you do not agree with - do not criticize but ALLOW the other person to live according to his will.

Interpretation: 
The mind constantly tries to control everything. However, the current of life does not obey such control. Transurfing helps you let go and trust. This is a crucial step. To learn to go with the current of life, you need to learn to trust. You create your obstacles by yourself. It is easier for the Universe to keep you flowing on your optimal lines of life, because on them you release only pure energy. On the contrary, when you release polarized energy, the Universe has to activate equilibrium forces and to change your lines of life, which involves loss of pure energy. If you do not fight the Universe, you will flow on the best possible lines.

Here  we go, all the replies to my yesterday's 'not-so-optimistic-as-if-should-be-if-you-are-a-transurfer" post :) But anyway, love the way I do it everyday now, the challenge thing. And I am not even home. Again, this it not just a current to my point of view, but :

 

Practical Transurfing - 78 day challenge, Day 39

Against the Current 

Declaration: Observe at least for a day how you mind tries to flow against the current. Someone says something, you refuse to listen; someone gives you something, you refuse to take it; another person does something you don’t like and you feel entitled to criticize him etc. This all happens when you play the participant. Now change the tactics and play the observant. Observe life and do not express negative feelings whenever something happens, which does not "coincide" with your plan. Life will become easier that way.
 
Interpretation: The mind has a fixed solution for everything. Everything has to go according to his plan. However, life is way too vast and the mind cannot find a stable solution for every problem. Yet, he tries all the time. Situations change all the time and that is why we should play the role of the observant. When you desperately hang on to your scenario, you try to go against the current of life and cause yourself trouble. The mind tries to control not your attitude, but the current itself. However, the Universe does not always go in the direction the mind wants. The only control the mind should be exerting is the control of the internal and external importance. If you do not try to go against the current, the problematic situation will fix itself in your favor without your direct participant...

So, the song 'Row your boat' is also relevant to this. But show me a person, who doesn't want to be in charge of his own decisions :) To persuade yourself that 'go with a current' will do you good, especially then you think something is not going right, is not the easiest thing to do. We all are taught that to get something in life you are supposed to do something, but not go with the circumstances. Is it a bit hard to separate this 'go with a flow' and what I call Oblomovism.

Practical Transurfing - 78 day challenge, Day 38

My world is taking care of me

Declaration: 
Start you day with this phrase. Use it whoever happens in your life. (Especially declare that your world is taking care of you when you are in a bad situation) When you are successful, also confirm that your world is indeed taking care of you.

Interpretation: 
First, you need to start stating this phrase every day, to avoid problems and negative lines of life. When something negative happens, ALWAYS state this phrase to return to better life lines and to restore your energy; you need sufficient energy to reach your goal and if you respond to negative vibrations in a negative way, you will never reach your goal. This phrasing is important to keep in successful lines of life. Adam says this is (I quote him):EXTREMELY POWERFUL TECHNIQUE. Try it for few days and see the results. The Universe is a mirror - whatever your declare, that is what you will receive.

Don't know who Adam is. But My world is taking care of me! Everyday, every minute and every second. More and more I see it. Thank you, my world.

Practical Transurfing - 78 day challenge, Day 37

Coordination of Intention 

Declaration: If you decide to see a negative event as positive - it will be that way. No matter how bad things look in the moment, they will brighten up if you instead of negative, release positive energy in the Universe. Otherwise, things will get worse. With every obstacle, tell that if what you want happens - fine; if it doesn’t better! With that attitude you will avoid mass problems. After all, your world DOES take care of you and who knows by not giving you what you want, from how many troubles it is saving you. Say that no matter what happens, it is all in your favor!

Interpretation: Life is a chain of actions and consequences. That is, one line of life leads to another and so on. The line of life, on which we act is always closely situated to the line of life, where is the consequence. Each line of life divides into 2 more lines: one better and one worse. When we release negative energy, the consequence becomes bad for us. When we release positive energy, we choose the better consequence. Usually people experience chain of negative events. This is because when something bad happens, they release negative energy, which further sends them to a line of life on which they experience again something negative. And the process is endless. So, negative events do not follow from the original one, but from your attitude! The principle of coordination of intention allows you to always pick up the better consequence.

With my every obstacle, if what I want happens - fine, if not - even better! My world DOES take care of me and knows by not giving me what I want, from how many troubles it is saving me! Everything what happens is just in my favour!

Practice, baby, practice! And this is such a fun. It really makes you laugh, this one. Because, to your mind it seems silly at least, to react this way to what it looks like negative things. But a little laugh does lots of good things )))

Practical Transurfing - 78 day challenge, Day 36

 Quit the Battle with the World

 Declaration: The world reflects as a mirror your attitude towards it. When you hate it, it hates you back. When you fight it, it fights you back. When you battle it, it battles you. When you, however, stop the battle and MAKE THE FIRST STEP towards it, the world suddenly starts walking towards you. This means - do not try to change the reflection (thus, the consequence of your actions or thoughts) change your ATTITUDE ... If you allow yourself to have what you want and do not question that, the external intention will find a way to give it to you. You desperately want to achieve your goal? This desperation is going to fail you. Think of it in this manner: "I go to take what is rightfully mine- it is already mine in the metaphysical reality and in a matter of certain time, it is going to manifest in the physical reality as well" If you are desperate, it simply shows you do not believe that what you want is ALREADY yours in the metaphysical reality (thus, in a certain life of line in the time space continuum) and if you do not believe that, the Universe cannot move you from your line of life to the new one.

Interpretation: Pendulums prompt in you the belief that one should fight to reach his goals, should battle the world, and should change completely. You believe you are too flawed for your goals and need to improve to reach them, and then, you change, and realize you actually still haven't achieved those goals.... This entire scenario has one main task - to take energy away from you. Pendulums need energy to feed on and they need to take it from someone every time you have negative thoughts (or reach negatively to the world around you) you willing give your energy to the pendulums. (And in the process, lower your vibrations so much that you actually transition to a worse line of life, to match your "new" worse vibration) No one can force you to give your energy nevertheless; you do it all the time, when you react negatively. In this moment, you should "wake up" from the dream and see it is all a game. You fight because you are full of internal and external importance To reach your goals, you need to ALLOW yourself to have it here and now. As Zeland himself says: If you cannot take what you want and cannot allow yourself now, postpone for later. However, postponing for later leads to a state of being where life is being considered as a preparation for a better future. You are discontent with the present and live with the hope for a quick improvement. With this attitude, the future never occurs. With the same success, you can go and chase the sunset. It just won’t happen....

The author often says that we are asleep and not concentrated. As an example, we do not remember things. Can you  imagine, just yesterday, before going to bed, I have posted the day 35 and today in the morning I already do not remember in I have posted this or not. And I consider doing this challenge one of the most important things I do in life now.

Practical Transurfing - 78 day challenge, Day 35

Lowering the Importance 

Declaration: All non-equilibrium feelings and reactions: " indignation, discontent, irritation, anxiety, excitement, depression, confusion, despair, fear, pity, attachment, desire, affection, idealization, a worship, delight, disappointment, pride, conceit, contempt, disgust, insult, etc" come as a consequence of raising the importance of things. Pendulums trap you and transform you into a puppet. To reduce the importance does not mean to struggle with your feelings and to try to suppress them; instead you should change the reason for the feelings - your attitude. It is necessary to realize that importance will not bring you anything, except for problems

Interpretation: Problems as such do NOT exist - what exists is the RAISED importance of things. When you intentionally lower the importance, problems easily get solved. Pay attention: not to underestimate the problem, but to lower the importance. Accept the problem as a game and look to it from the outside, soberly and impartially (as an observant, not participant). When you lower the importance, you will enter an equilibrium condition, and pendulums cannot establish control over you control because you will not be emotionally "charged", but neutral. It does NOT mean to turn into a robot. Emotions are generated by attitude; therefore it is necessary to change the attitude. Feelings and emotions are only consequences of your RAISED importance. To illustrate his point, Zeland gives an example. Lets assume a person I know has given birth, or has gotten married. Is it important to him? No. Is he indifferent towards the event? Again no. Catch a difference? Simply I do not inflate from this a problem and I do not exhaust about it myself and associates. Simply he does not inflate problems and so, he does no "torture" with his problems those, who are around him. Strong tendency to raise external importance creates fanatics; strong tendency to raise internal importance creates cretins.

I have watched TV today. It doesn't happen often, and I prefer not to. But when I get to the places where TV is on and everyone is watching, I am easily catch by TV pendulums. One nice advice was given to raise your mood if you feel negatively. Take a chopstick and squeeze it in your mouth so that both sides of it are out your lips ends and it is pulling your lips into a 'forced smile'. Leave it like this for some time. They say, this action activated the brain cells responsible for joy and happiness. See, where it gets you. For sure, when you look into the mirror and see your stupid look, you will smile.

I have published two times during one day not only because of my determination to go through this challenge day by day as needed, but because I was on a plane yesterday and was offline. 

Practical Transurfing - 78 day challenge, Day 34

'Rule of Transurfing'

 

Declaration: 

Replace the rule of the pendulum "Do as I do" with the rule of the Transurfing "Allow yourself to be the way you are and the others to be the way they are". Basically, it says to let go. Stay true to yourself and do not try to change other people and force them to be the way you want them to. Remove your projections of expectations of other people. Your expectations of other people twist the energetic picture of the Universe and you activate the equilibrium forces against you. By NOT doing that, you will remove mass problems from your life.

Interpretation: 

This is the ONLY way for you to find your true path in life. When you are to face a conflict in your life, ask yourself: what should I do to keep the rule of Transurfing working for me? That way, by being true to yourself and yet, allowing other people to be the way they want themselves to be, you will avoid also feeling of blame, unworthiness, and will establish better relations with those around you.

I feel a bit jealous of when I hear someone says: I always wanted to be ... or when I was small I wanted to be...  Not that I am jealous, but I wish I could say this myself. And after I have understood the true sense of life, which in Transurfing is to find your path and follow it, I always feel what a shame this is, that a person knew his path when he was young, but didn’t follow it. I only hope I will find my path one day. As an example, this last conversation with a 25 year old, who just started to work. ‘I wanted to be a footballer, and was training a lot, but my parents convinced me to be a financer’. He says, he feels they were right to convince him to do this, and now he is happy. He just finished a master degree from one on the best uni’s in London. Well-done for him. But, well done for his parents or no?

My grand-mother always wanted to be a performer and sing in well, I guess, folk style band. But she says she was too shy and educated only two years of school. So, instead of this, she made her two daughters to go the musical school. And they hated that. One of them was my mother, and she always wanted to be a gardener or land shaft designer. But she is only spending all of her summer days in my grandmother’s garden. And she has her own excuses why she never started what she wanted to become.

As Mr Zeland puts it: two most important things in life are:

Find your second half and find your path and follow it.

And these two are my life goals.