I Give Myself to You, my World
Declaration: Usually people are consumed with thoughts what they want to get from others and rarely think what the others actually want. When you change your focus to what others want, you will obtain actually what you want. Determine what is the internal intention of people around you and use your external intention to give it to them (this is explained in details in the chapter "Freiling") when you direct your attention at others, they will do the same for you, even if they are not aware of this. Now, every time you want something from someone else, ask yourself "What does this person wants, what does make him happy"? When you act towards helping that person obtain happiness, you will receive the help you want from him.
Interpretation: Problems arise from the clash between different internal intentions from different people. Everyone wants to reach their goals and the goals of one group of people usually contradict the goals of others. As a result, conflicts or even wars arise. Use your external intention to help another person reach his internal intention. At the base of all internal intention lies the feeling of self-importance. When you raise the person's self-importance, you will get their good will. To get their attention, show sincere interest in their well being. Talk to people about what they are interested in, not what you are interested in, and they will subconsciously like you a lot. People are NOT interested in your qualities or flaws - they are interested in what happens to their feeling of self - importance while communicating to you: do they feel intimidated, threatened, flattered etc? To make someone help you, help him first raise his self-importance...
All is going great so far. There is nothing to worry about. I am just cruising slowly on the waves of life. Taking care of myself and my son. Creating my business. Traveling. And gym and spa experiences are just a perfect addition to all of this.